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Happiness

By Chetz Togom / April 29, 2012 / How To, My Thoughts / No Comments

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It’s been awhile since I’ve really written a blog post.

If you’ve noticed these past couple of weeks I only shared inspirational quotes or videos to help us live our best life or live a happy life.

There were a lot of things happening in my life for these past few weeks actually.

A lot of ‘Aha!’ moments and certain things started to unfold and made me realize and understand more on how life works.

I know I was an unhappy person who was seeking happiness.

Well, that was what I thought.

But what I actually did was seeking for unhappy things to complain or grumble about.

I realize now we can’t seek happiness.. we can just BE HAPPY.

A lot of people (me included) are looking for something to happen in order for us to be happy.

You probably thinking what a crap of shit I’m talking about.

I know I was like that too.

It’s very hard to BE HAPPY when are a lot of things happening around you that piss you off.

This might not apply to you, but I believe a lot of people are unhappy because of THEIR JOB.

This is because we spend most of our time at the office or doing our “job”.

And a lot of us are doing the job that we don’t “believe in” or we don’t know what is the purpose of doing it.

Worse, some are doing the job that are AGAINST their beliefs or principles.

This is the WORST kind of job.

I know because I’m in this situation right now.

But I’m grateful for the experiences I got as I believe there are reasons for things to happen, especially when you don’t plan it.

I actually don’t believe in reading newspapers as most of the time it will give you NEGATIVE energy (other than most of the stories are twisted).

A lot of the things you read in the news will make you ANGRY or FRUSTRATED.

Like there’s NOT ENOUGH frustrations and things that make you angry in your life that you have to read or watch the news?

Maybe I ended up in newspapers business or writing for magazine because my best friend’s curse.

She always said, “I wish you were in my shoes so you understand”.

I do understand how frustrating it can be to write something that you believe doesn’t give any benefits to people who read it, but in fact might cause more problems.

Like I hate writing about food.

I mean why do you need to write it in a way so that people want to eat it?

We don’t have enough fat and obese people?

Do you really need to write like that to make people to eat it? I don’t think so (especially for Malaysians).

Just put the picture of the dish, maybe what’s inside it or the ingredients, where to get it and rate it.

Nice? You should try it? Ok? Sucks? Give diarrhea?

Why do you want to waste your time reading about how a dish taste like?

What you like might not be the same as what the writer’s like.

If you feel like eating it, just go and eat it!

Experience it. Don’t trust some writers or people who have eaten it.

How many times have you heard someone who said the food somewhere is damn nice but when you went and ate it, it’s actually not that nice?

I’ve experienced this many times!

This is one of the reasons why I’m unhappy most of the time.

What I do and what I think is NOT IN HARMONY.

And if you are working in a company or an employee, there’ll always be something that is NOT in harmony with what you’re thinking.

A few days ago I had to cover something that is “Why the hell people want to read about this” event, which made me very angry.

While I was sweeping the floor suddenly this question came into mind,

“If you hate what you’re writing or hate what you’re doing so much and think what’s written in the newspapers are craps, why don’t you create your own newspapers or something that you believe people should read and will benefit them?”

Hhmmmmm….. Why don’t I?

I don’t have any good answer (or excuse) to NOT do this.

So, this is what I’ll do.

Be the change you want to see in the world.
~ Gandhi

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I'm a lover, an engineer and entrepreneur. I'm crazy about my partner and best friend and my 8 dogs. Whatever I do they are the first thing in mind. This is why I do what I do. Being an engineer is awesome but even if I become the CEO of a company that is not mine, the fact is my salary won't be enough to have a life I dream of with my family. That's is why I also work on my online business. It took me a long time to find a system that would really help ANYONE who wants to make money online. It's kinda a miracle because I found it when I was really at the bottom of my life's journey. If you have question about the system I'm using right now to make money online, do email me chetz@chetztogom.com or message me on FB http://www.facebook.com/chetzyusof.